Arranging a marriage or civil partnership
Congratulations on taking this exciting next step together!
Whether you’re getting married or forming a civil partnership, the venue you choose, and the type of ceremony you want are going to be important decisions you make.
We’re here to help guide you through the civil registration requirements when choosing a venue and provide you with information to help you decide on the type of ceremony that is right for you.
In the Isle of Man, legislation provides for both same-sex and opposite-sex civil marriages and civil partnerships.
It is possible for a civil marriage or a civil partnership to take place at any of the following places:
- The Civil Registry office (Douglas)
- A registration office (Ramsey or Peel)
- An Approved Place (e.g. locations or hotels that have applied for and been granted a license for ceremonies to be held there)
- At a one-off location where consent has been granted by the Registrar General
For anyone wishing to marry in a church/religious building in the Isle of Man that is not a Church of England building, please see Church Weddings below. Please note that for all non-Church of England ceremonies, notice must be given at the Douglas Civil Registry.
For anyone wishing to marry in either of the Ramsey or Peel registration offices, please contact them directly on the details provided on the Births, Deaths and Marriages webpage for full guidance on the process.
Step by step guide to organising a Civil Ceremony
- Choose a venue (Douglas Registry Office / Approved Place / One Off Place)
- Read the detailed information/guidance/instructions for the relevant venue option below
- Consider the ceremony type from the options in the downloadable documents section
- Download/print and complete the proposed ceremony form and return it to us in person or by email at civil@registry.gov.im (please ensure that the document is saved/printed in landscape format to ensure all the fields to complete are displayed)
- Book a Notice Appointment with the Civil Registry. The following activities will take place at the appointment:
- Identification is verified for both parties
- Checks are performed to ensure both parties are free to marry/form a civil partnership
- Personal information is collated
- Interviews are held with each party individually
- Ceremony requirements are discussed including choice of ceremony scripts
- Formal notice of intention to marry will be signed
- Payment of all associated fees will be taken
- Identification is verified for both parties
Booking your Ceremony at the Civil Registry Offices (and the associated fees)
Fees for Civil Ceremonies
There are different fees depending on the day and time of your ceremony.
Monday to Friday ceremony appointments (not including bank holidays) between 9:30am and 4pm: Total Cost - £266
Saturday appointments between 9:30am and 3:30pm: Total Cost - £322
The above fees include:
- Recording the Entry in the marriage notice book (£42)
- Issuing the Certificate authorising marriage (£14)
- Ceremony Room hire (£140) *
- Registrar hire (Monday to Friday £56; Saturday £112)
- Producing a certified copy of the marriage register entry (£14)
*Please note: The fee for Room Hire above is for the Douglas Registry Ceremony Room. Please contact the Ramsey and Peel Registry Offices directly for confirmation of room hire costs there.
All fees are payable at your Notice Appointment.
Booking your Ceremony in an Approved Place (and the associated fees)
View our list of Approved Places for Ceremonies on the Isle of Man. Contact your venue of choice to agree a time and date and they will give you an AP1 Form to complete and submit to the Douglas Civil Registry Office.
Once the form has been processed and a Registrar has been allocated, we will write to you in relation to booking a Notice Appointment.
You should receive a letter within 1 week of submitting your AP1 Form.
Prices
There are different fees depending on the day and time of your ceremony. All fees are payable at your Notice Appointment.
Monday to Friday ceremonies (excluding bank holidays) between 9:30am and 4:30pm: Total Cost - £360
Saturday ceremonies between 9:30am and 4pm: Total Cost - £420
Any ceremonies at any other time (irrespective of day): Total Cost - £570
The above fees include:
- Recording the Entry in the marriage notice book (£42)
- Issuing the Certificate authorising marriage (£14)
- Registrar fees (see below)
- Producing a certified copy of the marriage register entry (£14)
Registrar fees
Monday to Friday ceremonies (excluding bank holidays) between 9:30am and 4:30pm - £290
Saturday ceremonies between 9:30am and 4pm - £350
Any ceremonies at any other time (including Bank Holidays) - £500
Booking your Ceremony in a One Off Venue/Aircraft/Vehicle/Vessel (and the associated fees)
Contact the venue owner and together complete the S4B Form/ Contact the aircraft; vehicle; vessel owner and together complete the S4D Form. Submit the completed form to the Douglas Civil Registry Office with all the enclosures listed in section 7 of the S4B Form / section 8 of the S4D Form and pay the £290 non-refundable application fee.
An inspection of the venue/aircraft/vehicle/vessel will be arranged by a Civil Registry representative as to its suitability and to ensure it meets the criteria within their guidance issued by the Clerk of Rolls. The Civil Registry will report back to you and will either approve, reject or supply a list of adjustments for the venue/aircraft/vehicle/vessel to make ahead of your ceremony.
Once the form has been processed, all checks have been carried out, permissions have been granted and a Registrar has been allocated, we will write to you in relation to booking a Notice Appointment. This can take up to 42 days following the submission of your S4B/S4D Form.
Prices
On submission of your S4B/S4D Form to the Douglas Civil Registry you are required to pay a non-refundable £290 application fee.
The following fees are then payable at your Notice Appointment. There are different fees depending on the day and time of your ceremony.
Monday to Friday ceremonies (excluding bank holidays) between 9:30am and 4:30pm: Total Cost - £360
Saturday ceremonies between 9:30am and 4pm: Total Cost - £420
Any ceremonies at any other time (irrespective of day): Total Cost - £570
The above fees include:
- Recording the Entry in the marriage notice book (£42)
- Issuing the Certificate authorising marriage (£14)
- Registrar fees (see below)
- Producing a certified copy of the marriage register entry (£14)
Registrar fees
Monday to Friday ceremonies (excluding bank holidays) between 9:30am and 4:30pm: - £290
Saturday ceremonies between 9:30am and 4pm - £350
Any ceremonies at any other time (including Bank Holidays) - £500
Please note: These fees relate to the civil registration requirements only. Your venue/aircraft/vehicle/vessel may charge their own fees for hosting your ceremony and you should contact them directly for more information on these.
Church weddings
If you wish to have a wedding in a Church of England church, enquiries should be made to the Vicar of the church who will advise you of the legal requirements.
If you wish to have a wedding in any other church/religious building, firstly contact the representative of that particular denomination who will advise you of the legal requirements. At least 8 days prior to your ceremony you must give notice of your intention to marry to a registrar in the same way as you would for a civil marriage. We strongly advise against leaving giving notice until the last moment in case there are any unexpected complications.
Giving notice
You must attend together to give notice of your intention to marry or form a civil partnership. Notice can be given up to 12 months before your ceremony, but no later than 8 days beforehand. We strongly recommend giving notice as early as possible in case of any unforeseen delays.
Notice may only be given at a pre-booked appointment so please do not call into the Registry unannounced to give notice as we will be unable to do this.
After you give notice, your details will be entered into the Notice Book for 7 full days. This book is kept at the Civil Registry and is available for public inspection.
If no legal concerns or objections are raised during the 7‑day notice period, the Registrar will then sign your Certificate of Marriage or Civil Partnership Schedule. This confirms that your ceremony can proceed and remains valid for 12 months.
Ceremony script options
Statutory – The statutory wedding script contains only the minimum legal wording required for a marriage. It’s designed for couples who want the simplest possible ceremony.
Modern – The modern script offers a longer ceremony format that gives couples the opportunity to include personal readings or additional vows if they wish. It uses clear, contemporary language while still following a structure that reflects the style of a traditional wedding ceremony.
Traditional – The traditional script is the most comprehensive option, following the classic structure and style of a traditional wedding ceremony. It features formal language, established vows, and the expected ceremonial wording along with the opportunity to include personal readings or additional vows if desired.
Cancelling or amending the date and/or time of your Ceremony
If you wish to cancel or amend your booking please complete this form.
The amendment fee is £35 if made within 5 working days of the date of your ceremony.
The amendment fee is £20 if made in excess of 5 working days before the date of your ceremony.
There is no fee payable if you are cancelling your ceremony.
Note: Only the Marriage Certificate fee & the Registrar Hire fee is refundable.
The amendment fee can be paid over the telephone by credit/debit card. Alternatively you may come into the office to pay.
If you have already given notice of your intention to marry/register a civil partnership and your amended date falls outside the 12 month period and/or you are changing venue, you will be required to give notice again and the Civil Registry will have to produce a new marriage license (certificate for marriage).
Additional fees will apply as follows:
New Notice: £42
New Marriage License: £14
If your ceremony is booked at an approved place/one off venue you should also contact the venue as soon as possible. They may charge additional fees too.
Civil partnership useful information
Civil partnerships registered in the Isle of Man are recognised for legal purposes within the Island. Recognition of an Isle of Man civil partnership in other jurisdictions will depend on the laws of that country or region.
If you are unsure whether your civil partnership will be recognised where you currently live or intend to live, you should seek independent legal advice.
Converting your Civil Partnership into a Marriage
There are two different ways to convert your civil partnership to a marriage:
Standard Procedure (no ceremony)
You can make the conversion by booking an appointment with the Civil Registry or registration office to complete the relevant documentation. You will need to bring your original civil partnership certificate, birth certificate, photographic ID and proof of address as stated in Schedule 1 of the Civil Partnership (Conversion to Marriage) Regulations 2016.
Two Stage Procedure (ceremony)
Alternatively you can convert your civil partnership to a marriage by having a ceremony. If you wish to have a conversion through a full marriage ceremony, in addition to the requirements of the standard procedure, you will need to complete the legal preliminaries and pay the associated fees under the Civil Partnership (Conversion to Marriage) Fees Order 2023.
For more information please call the Douglas Civil Registry Office on +44 1624 687039.
You can convert your Civil Partnership in any of the Civil Registry Offices, in an Approved place or in a One Off Venue or Aircraft/Vehicle/Vessel. Please refer to the detailed information/guidance/instructions for the relevant venue option above.
Celebrants – Blessings (not marriage)
The Civil Registry has been made aware that a number of couples have held a ceremony on the Island with the event being blessed by a celebrant, in many cases the couple then posting pictures of what they state was ‘their wedding’ on social media. Please be aware that whilst a celebrant may carry out a blessing, they cannot legally marry a couple. Civil Marriages in the Isle of Man can only be legally performed by a registrar holding a warrant issued by the Registrar General.
Immigration/Marriage Visa requirements
Please check the Isle of Man Immigration web page to check your eligibility status. In addition, please also review the specific section called 'Visit' which gives guidance and requirements if visiting the Island to get married.
Non-UK or Irish Nationals will require valid paperwork to have a ceremony in the Isle of Man. If you are in any doubt as to your visa requirements, please contact the Immigration service as soon as possible on +44 1624 685203.
Any person who wilfully gives false information to the registrar relating to the particulars to be entered in any register is liable to prosecution, and on conviction, to the punishment prescribed by law.
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Witnesses
You are required by law to have 2 witnesses present to sign the register and we ask that they are over the age of 18, are able to speak English and understand the nature of what it is they are signing. Their names will appear on your marriage/civil partnership certificate.
Note: The registrar cannot act as a witness nor provide witnesses for you.
The Ceremony
Guests at the Douglas Civil Registry Ceremony Room
The Douglas Civil Registry Ceremony Room holds up to 40 guests.
Length of the Ceremony
A ceremony can take from 10 minutes to 30 minutes depending on how you want it to go (you will discuss this with a Registrar at your Notice Appointment). The fee paid to book the Civil Ceremony room secures it for one hour.
At the day of the Ceremony
The following will be discussed and can be altered to suit your wishes at your notice appointment.
You may wish to arrive together or separately. Either is fine.
Ordinarily the Registrar will arrive at least 1 hour prior to your ceremony start time.
You should advise your guests to arrive between 30 minutes and 10 minutes before the ceremony start time depending on the number of them.
We suggest Partner A arrive 5-10 minutes before the ceremony start time. The Registrar will answer any last minute questions and instruct Partner A on where to stand in preparation for the arrival of Partner B.
The Registrar will meet Partner B on arrival to let them know where Partner A will be and give instruction as to when and where to enter the ceremony area.
The Registrar will then return to the ceremony area and ask everyone to be upstanding. The ceremony can then begin.
Receiving your Marriage/Civil Partnership Certificate
The Registrar will give you your Marriage Certificate once the two of you and both witnesses have signed the Register at the end of your ceremony.
You can obtain as many copies of your Marriage Certificate as you want, and at any time.
You can order Certified Copy Certificates online (£12 per certificate).
Getting married off-Island
If you are getting married in the UK or abroad you will need to clarify with the Registrar Office you are dealing with if you can give Notice on the Isle of Man.
Please ensure they are aware that the Isle of Man is a separate jurisdiction to the UK.
Certificate of No Impediment
The Civil Registry does not currently issue Certificates of No Impediment, however we can issue a Certified Result of a Search.
For this you need to complete the Certified Result of a Search application form and submit it with your birth certificate and decree absolute (if previously married). We conduct a search of our records from either, the date of your 16th birthday, the date of your decree absolute or the date you commenced residency on the Isle of Man.
The prescribed fees are as follows:
- £7 where a search is required to be made by Registry staff in respect of records from 1980 to date
- £35 where a search is required to be made by Registry staff in respect of records prior to 1980, for every period of 5 years or part thereof that is required to be searched
Decree Absolute
The Civil Registry does not hold records for divorces. If you were divorced in the Isle of Man, you will need to contact the Isle of Man Courts of Justice.
Renewal of vows
Contact a local church or find a venue. Any person can perform such a ceremony on the Island. As there are no legalities involved, you do not need to contact the Isle of Man Civil Registry.
Other things you may wish to consider
Music
Music certainly enhances the occasion and is usually played as your guests arrive, for your entrance, during the signing of the register and for your exit. This can be any music of your choice providing it has no religious references. During your notice meeting this can be discussed with the registrar. The Ceremony Room at the Civil Registry is equipped with a CD player and a Bluetooth speaker. If your ceremony is at an Approved Place, please liaise directly with the venue as to what facilities are available for playing recorded music. There may be more scope for you to have live music if you prefer.
Readings
Readings of non-religious poetry or prose may be read by a family member or friend, giving them the chance to play a part in your ceremony. Photography Photographs are a very special memento and your official photographer may take photographs throughout the ceremony. Although your guests are very welcome to bring cameras to record the occasion, we ask that they keep their places until directed by the Registrar.
Videography
We understand that you may want to look back on this important day and relive your treasured memories, therefore we are happy for a video recording of your ceremony to be taken, however, we do ask that the operator remains stationary and is not one of the parties to the ceremony or an official witness. If the ceremony is recorded, any live music or commercial music recording captured (or later dubbed on by the person editing the video recording) will require permission to do so. For live music you will need to obtain permission from the artist(s). For commercially available music, The Limited Manufacture Licence from PRS is the best way to obtain this.
Flowers
The Ceremony Room at the Civil Registry is tastefully decorated with silk flower arrangements, however, you are welcome to provide your own floral arrangements for your ceremony, giving you the opportunity to personalise the room to match your chosen colour scheme.
Confetti
Confetti is a traditional part of a ceremony and we are happy for your guests to throw biodegradable confetti outside the building. If your ceremony is taking place at an Approved Place, please make enquiries directly with the venue as to what restrictions they may have.
Reserved seating
We suggest you allocate an usher to assist with the seating arrangements.
Animals
Animals or wildlife, including your own pets, are not permitted in the Ceremony Room. The only exception to this is assistance dogs who may attend with their owners.
Interpreter
It is essential that both of you and both of your official witnesses fully understand the content of your ceremony and the full legal implications. If there are any language difficulties, you must employ the services of a government recognised interpreter (extra fees will apply). The interpreter will be required to sign the register and a declaration to confirm they have translated all content for you and are satisfied that you understood the nature and purpose of the ceremony.
Parking and public transport
There are no reserved parking spaces outside the Civil Registry, although there is disc parking zones. Pay and display car parks are located at Chester Street and Drumgold Street. For satnav systems, please use postcode IM1 3AR. The Civil Registry is easily served by public transport and is close to Douglas town centre. For information about parking at an Approved Place, please contact the venue direct.
Changes to your personal information
If any of your information changes after giving notice, please inform the Registrar immediately in writing, supplying documentary evidence and contact details should we need to get in touch with you before your ceremony.
Postponements and cancellations
In the event that you need to postpone or cancel your ceremony, you are required to notify the Registrar in writing by completing the Application to Amend or Cancel a Ceremony form forwarding it to the Civil Registry as soon as possible. Should you need to change the time and/or date of your ceremony, a prescribed fee will also be payable
Code of conduct - Civil Registry
- Smoking is not permitted in any part of the Registries Building
- Foods, chewing gum, soft drinks or alcohol are not permitted in the Ceremony Room
- Anyone under the influence of drink and/or drugs or who is abusive, will be asked to leave the Registries Building
- Mobile phones, pagers, etc. must be switched off or put on silent for the duration of the ceremony


